● RELATIONSHIP COACHING
Build a life you love — regardless of who you're with
Post-break-up coaching that resolves emotional blocks at root cause, breaks unconscious relationship patterns, and builds self-respect through consistent action. Not therapy. Not endless processing. Resolution.
🧠 NLP Certified Practitioner
⏳ Timeline Therapy Certified
🔬 Results-Focused
🤝 1-on-1 Accountability
You are not alone
The grief hits in waves. The anger is exhausting. You're questioning everything — who you are, what you want, whether you'll ever feel like yourself again. Maybe you've been here before. Maybe this feels like a pattern you can't break.
Grief & confusion
Anger & hurt
Fear of repeating
You're not broken. You're not behind. You're exactly where this work begins.
THE APPROACH
Three pillars. One transformation.
01
Self-Leadership
Resolve, Don't Cope
Emotions stored at a subconscious level don't fade with time — they run in the background. We clear them at root cause using Timeline Therapy. Not managing. Resolving.
"You don't need more time. You need the right process."
02
Conscious Alignment
You Didn't Just Find Them. You Chose Them.
Your attachment style and tolerance for familiar pain form a template that selects for specific people. Seeing this clearly isn't blame — it's pattern interruption.
"The pattern isn't a coincidence. It's a map."
03
Homecoming
Build a Life Worth Coming Home To
The goal isn't a new relationship — it's a self you don't want to abandon again. Identity, accountability, and the foundation that makes a different relationship possible.
"When love comes again, it will come from wholeness. Not loneliness."
Happy Clients
Read what clients have to say about me
Working with Igor has been an incredible journey so far. I have been able to identify and release negative emotions, and replace limiting beliefs that I didn't even realise were holding me back. I'm eagerly looking forward to learning more and applying the skills he has taught me in the next exciting chapter of my life.
Elle
Working with Igor was an amazing journey. I was struggling with a few aspects of my mental health as well as balancing my career and personal life. I felt like everything was getting a little out of balance and I was feeling completely at my wits end. I was recommended to Igor through a friend and he helped me immensely. He’s a great listener, an insightful thinker and one of the most authentic humans I have ever met. Together we worked through some past emotional trauma, which helped me release some trapped memories and emotions locked away in my body. Then created a concise vision for my future, with tangible, realistic goals. I can see my vision coming together a little everyday.
Bob
Imagine you struggle with ADHD and OCD for years and finally find a method to deal with it.
Andre
Ready to begin?
Book a free 30-minute discovery call. No pressure. No obligation. Just an honest conversation about where you are.
The Integration Lab
Cognitive coaching for people moving forward after breakup, separation, or divorce. Resolve what happened. Understand your patterns. Build what comes next.
PROGRAMME
Emotional Baggage Audit
Relationship Pattern Profile
Self-Abandonment Checklist
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